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11/1/2018 0 Comments My Theory of ArousalOK, I am going to talk about something I have been thinking a lot about lately, and that is arousal. More specifically, how my arousal has changed since starting HRT 14 months ago.
So, before I started on HRT, I was very easily aroused. It was so ridiculous how often I had to take care of business. It was usually every day, many more than once. Now, after being on HRT for quite a while now, I must say, if it happens once a week, that's just fine with me. The sensations I feel now are so much better than how it felt running on testosterone. I feel very satisfied afterwords. Now on to my theory. Talking with many women this past year, pretty much all of them have the same thing to say. I was I was more interested in sex. This got me thinking about the differences between men and women. Men tend to be ready to go at the drop of a hat. Women on the other hand tend to like a slow build to the big finish. I am pretty damned confident that is where our new operating system has taken us. I think we need to learn that we just need to set aside some time to romance our selves and then we can start to relearn how our sense of arousal has changed. It is hard to break that programming that testosterone instilled in us, but we can change it. I think we even should change it, but of course, everyone is different. I know for me, quick and dirty is no longer what I want. The long, slow build feels so wonderful. I look forward to the times I get to spend with myself, exploring how my body has changed, and continues to change.
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